Thursday, August 11, 2011

Those who say yes have more fun


How do we make that scary leap from thinking about writing to actually doing it?
Now, I cannot claim to be a total expert on this. There are many things that I'd like to do/am in the process of doing that may never fall under the done heading. Hiking in Nepal, taking flying lessons, and competing in a triathlon to name a few. However, I do have a decent track record of actually completing a good number of the seemingly improbable things that I set out to do. Here's what has worked for me:


Write it down, then start mapping your path

We all know that putting pen to paper is one of the best ways to make things happen. It'll start to seem realistic when you look at it on paper. Taking it further helps even more; research, do your own due diligence and start compiling the information that will bridge the gap between what's inside your head and what's not.

Blast it
Tell everybody about it! Anybody worth knowing will be excited for you and feed your enthusiasm. Also, you'll be a less likely to back out of your plan because everyone you know will be asking you about it. Shame can be a great motivator.

Spend money on it
Most will be exponentially more likely to complete a goal that they spend money on. It's a great step towards getting there.

Make it irreversible
Now that you're making tendrils of progress, keep going. When you're really serious about something and you know intuitively, that it's the right choice, don't allow yourself the luxury of a backup plan. I once bought a one-way, non-refundable ticket, to Europe expecting to stay for six months and instead it turned into three years. Be courageous! By putting yourself at the mercy of fate you are going to have so much fun!

Doing begets more doing
I've found that action begets more action. Once you've published your novella, you know that you are capable of moving to Hong Kong on your own, or learning to speak Hindi, and you can't be deterred from starting an import business–all these things are totally doable, you go-getter, you!  








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